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Archive for March, 2008



24
Mar

Paschal Ponderings

I like Easter holidays. I like the break, the spending time with family and friends, and the undeniable connection with our Faith. Easter itself is often quite a trying experience – going through the emotion of Holy Thursday and Good Friday, the numbness of Easter Saturday followed by the joy of Easter Sunday…it’s a good thing we have Easter Monday to recover. ;) (That’s not a poke at the Captain’s question of why we have the holidays at all – I’m just personally glad we do).

So, as I sit here this morning looking back at Easter 2008, I have a few thoughts and observations to make for those of you out there in Being Frankland.

  1. The Pope’s Urbi et Orbi Easter message has been published and, amongst other things, it calls for renewed efforts to bring peace to “especially the Holy Land, Iraq, Lebanon, and finally Tibet.” I heartily agree with Pope Benedict’s comments, but I wonder how many are listening? Sure, Holy Week rituals may deepen our faith, but what about those who seem to have no faith at all to deepen? What about those who are lower than low, those who literally personify evil, and who won’t be touched by the Pope’s message because they won’t hear it? What do we do about them? What about those who are just misguided, those to whom Easter as all chocolates and holidays and every other event except anything to do with church, and who won’t be touched by the Easter liturgies because they won’t be attending them? What do we do about them?
  2. It seems that not a year goes by without the whole Easter Trading thing coming up for debate again. However, it was interesting this year to see that two-thirds of those questioned by Research New Zealand are in favour of keeping the Easter Trading ban. Is some common sense finally becoming common again? :) I sit firmly on the keep-the-ban side of things. A couple of days a year is not going to be enough to inconvenience anyone, and it forces people to do things other than shop (or work). Keep those days shopping-free I say!
  3. I am inspired by the story of the baptism of Magdi Allam, a prominent Muslim critic, by the Pope at the Easter Vigil. Inspired because there is another example of a man who has come to the Faith in a public and obvious manner even though his life is at threat due to his beliefs. I find that inspiring because he is really walking the walk, and such faith really puts my troubles and concerns into perspective.
  4. I was watching a documentary last night talking about Nero and the Claudio-Julian dynasty of the Roman Empire. In it, the commentary focused on the terrible ways the early Christian martyrs were put to death. One commentator remarked that it was the beginning of the end for the Roman Empire, mainly because the fact that these Christians went to their very public and gruesome deaths without recanting their faith (which was all they had to do to have their lives spared) was enough to inspire large portions of the Roman people. So, every time Nero executed a Christian, many more were converted – a trend that continued to the point where Rome is now the centre of the Catholic Church. I just thought I’d pass that on: historical evidence of an answer to the question I posed a few weeks ago – do we see tragedy negatively, or as an opportunity for the greater glory of God? :)

I really hope you all had a great Easter break and that you return to work feeling recharged and re-energised in your Faith.

23
Mar

Easter Season

Happy Easter Sunday!   A day to celebrate the amazing and eternal mystery of Jesus rising from the dead.

 Hmmm what happened this week, the most important in the Church’s calender, apart from our road toll, petrol prices, and mortgage interest rates being ridiculously high.   Lucky we have sooo much more to be excited about than that!

I reflected on how I did at “lent”.   I don’t think I did so well this lent to be honest.   I didn’t keep my resolutions as well as I could have (mainly because I have been really, really busy with work and finishing a diploma, which has kind of sucked).  

Giving up things / doing extra things for a season is never something we particularly want to do – but like tidying your room or taking out the rubbish it always makes you feel a lot better afterwards and you regret the growth you have sacrificed if you don’t do it.   In the end you are much more content in your life if you make an effort to keep up with the Church’s seasons I think- they are there to help us, being imperfect people who can’t always be counted on to do things and remember things all on our own.  

I also went to the Easter services on Thursday and Friday with close friends from work.   On Thursday we had a glass of wine together after work then headed to church.   It kind of surprised me that they were all keen to go to Church together (I work in a large corporate firm)  - I didn’t even know some of them were Catholic.   I even persuaded the guy that sits next to me at work to come, be it very tentatively and probably only because everybody else was.   He informed me he went to a Catholic primary school so “knows how to be a non-Catholic in a Catholic service”, but after an hour  a half nervously pointed out to me on the leaflet that adoration went on till 11pm and would we be staying that long which made me laugh.  

I also finally made myself sit through The Passion with my flatmate.   It’s one of those movies you want to see, but never actually want to watch when it comes down to it – hence the fact I had never seen it before.   It is so true to the Gospel though and makes what Jesus went through really hit home.   As it should.   Now… hopefully Easter bunny  has come!

22
Mar

Mary, Queen of Sorrows

This Lent I have been reading The Dolorous Passion of Our Lord Jesus Christ (from the Meditations of Anne Catherine Emmerich). Anne Catherine Emmerich received visions on the Passion of Our Lord as well as some other aspects on the life of Our Lord and Our Lady. The book in question is really helping me to meditate on the Passion this Easter, so I thought I would reproduce a section of it in my post. Traditionally, in the Church, Saturday is the day that is dedicated to Our Lady, so I’ve posted the section that recounts her visions of Holy Saturday, with particular attention on Our Lady. I know it’s long, but I thought I’d post it all anyway because I think it’s a really worthwhile read! Happy Easter for tomorrow!

The faithful disciples of our Lord assembled together in the Cenaculum, to keep the eve of the Sabbath. They were about twenty in number, clothed in long white dresses, and with their waists girded. The room was lighted up by a lamp; and after their repast they separated, and for the most part returned home. They again assembled on the following morning, and sat together reading and praying by turns; and if a friend entered the room, they arose and saluted him cordially.
In that part of the house inhabited by the Blessed Virgin there was a large room, divided into small compartments like cells, which were used by the holy women for sleeping in at night. When they returned from the sepulchre, one of their number lighted a lamp which was hanging in the middle of the room, and they all assembled around the Blessed Virgin, and commenced praying in a mournful but recollected manner. A short time afterwards, Martha, Maroni, Dina, and Mara, who were just come with Lazarus from Bethania, where they had passed the Sabbath, entered the room. The Blessed Virgin and her companions gave them a detailed account of the death and burial of our Lord, accompanying each relation with many tears. The evening was advancing, and Joseph of Arimathea came in with a few other disciples, to ask whether any of the women wished to return to their homes, as they were ready to escort them. A few accepted the proposition, and set off immediately; but before they reached the tribunal of Caiphas, some armed men stopped Joseph of Arimathea, arrested, and shut him up in an old deserted turret.
Those among the holy women who did not leave the Cenaculum retired to take their rest in the cell-like compartments spoken of above: they fastened long veils over their heads, seated themselves sorrowfully on the floor, and leaned upon the couches which were placed against the wall. After a time they stood up, spread out the bedclothes which were rolled up on the couches, took off their sandals, girdles, and a part of their clothing, and reclined for a time in order to endeavour to get a little sleep. At midnight, they arose, clothed themselves, put up their beds, and reassembled around the lamp to continue their prayer with the Blessed Virgin.
When the Mother of Jesus and her pious companions had finished their nocturnal prayer (that holy duty which has been practised by all faithful children of God and holy souls, who have either felt themselves called to it by a special grace, or who follow a rule given by God and his Church), they heard a knock at the door, which was instantly opened, and John and some of the disciples who had promised to conduct them to the Temple, entered, upon which the women wrapped their cloaks about them, and started instantly. It was then about three in the morning, and they went straight to the Temple, it being customary among many Jews to go there before day dawned, on the day after they had eaten the Paschal lamb; and for this reason the Temple was open from midnight, as the sacrifices commenced very early. They started at about the same hour as that at which the priests had put their seal upon the sepulchre. The aspect of things in the Temple was, however, very different from what was usually the case at such times, for the sacrifices were stopped, and the place was empty and desolate, as everyone had left on account of the events on the previous day which had rendered it impure. The Blessed Virgin appeared to me to visit it for the sole purpose of taking leave of the place where she had passed her youth.
The Temple was, however, open; the lamps lighted and the people at liberty to enter the vestibule of the priests, which was the customary privilege of this day, as well as of that which followed the Paschal supper. The Temple was, as I said before, quite empty, with the exception of a chance priest or server who might be seen wandering about; and every part bore the marks of the confusion into which all was thrown on the previous day by the extraordinary and frightful events that had taken place; besides which it had been defiled by the presence of the dead, and I reflected and wondered in my own mind whether it would be possible ever to purify it again.
The sons of Simeon, and the nephews of Joseph of Arimathea, were much grieved when they heard of the arrest of their uncle, but they welcomed the Blessed Virgin and her companions, and conducted them all over the Temple, which they did without difficulty, as they held the offices of inspectors of the Temple. The holy Women stood in silence and contemplated all the terrible and visible marks of the anger of God with feelings of deep awe, and then listened with interest to the many stupendous details recounted by their guides. The effects of the earthquake were still visible, as little had been done towards repairing the numerous rents and cracks in the floor, and in the walls. In that part of the Temple where the vestibule joined the sanctuary, the wall was so tremendously shaken by the shock of the earthquake, as to produce a fissure wide enough for a person to walk through, and the rest of the wall looked unsteady, as if it might fall down at any moment. The curtain which hung in the sanctuary was rent in two and hung in shreds at the sides; nothing was to be seen around but crumbled walls, crushed flagstones, and columns either partly or quite shaken down.
The Blessed Virgin visited all those parts which Jesus had rendered sacred in her eyes; she prostrated, kissed them, and with tears in her eyes explained to the others her reasons for venerating each particular spot, whereupon they instantly followed her example. The greatest veneration was always shown by the Jews for all places which had been rendered sacred by manifestations of the Divine power, and it was customary to place the hands reverently on such places, kiss them, and to prostrate to the very earth before them. I do not think there was anything in the least surprising in such a custom, for they both knew, saw, and felt that the God of Abraham, of Isaac, and of Jacob, was a living God, and that his dwelling among his people was in the Temple at Jerusalem; consequently it would have been infinitely more astonishing if they had not venerated those holy parts where his power had been particularly demonstrated, for the Temple and the holy places were to them what the Blessed Sacrament is to Christians.
Deeply penetrated with these feelings of respect, the Blessed Virgin walked through the Temple with her companions, and pointed out to them the spot where she was presented when still a child, the parts where she passed her childhood, the place where she was affianced to St. Joseph, and the spot where she stood when she presented Jesus and heard the prophecy of Simeon the remembrance of his words made her weep bitterly, for the prophecy was indeed fulfilled, and the sword of grief had indeed transfixed her heart; she again stopped her companions when she reached the part of the Temple where she found Jesus teaching when she lost him at the age of twelve, and she respectfully kissed the ground on which he then stood. When the holy women had looked at every place sanctified by the presence of Jesus, when they had wept and prayed over them, they returned to Sion.
The Blessed Virgin did not leave the Temple without shedding many tears, as she contemplated the state of desolation to which it was reduced, an aspect of desolation which was rendered still more depressing by the marked contrast it bore to the usual state of the Temple on the festival day. Instead of songs and hymns of jubilee, a mournful silence reigned throughout the vast edifice, and in place of groups of joyful and devout worshippers, the eye wandered over a vast and dreary solitude. Too truly, alas, did this change betoken the fearful crime which had been perpetrated by the people of God, and she remembered how Jesus had wept over the Temple, and said, ‘Destroy this Temple and in three days I will build it up again.’ She thought over the destruction of the Temple of the Body of Jesus which had been brought about by his enemies, and she sighed with a longing desire for the dawning of that third day when the words of eternal truth were to be accomplished.
It was about daybreak when Mary and her companions reached the Cenaculum, and they retired into the building which stood on its right-hand side, while John and some of the disciples reentered the Cenaculum, where about twenty men, assembled around a lamp, were occupied in prayer. Every now and then newcomers drew nigh to the door, came in timidly, approached the group round the lamp, and addressed them in a few mournful words, which they accompanied with tears. Every one appeared to regard John with feelings of respect; because he had remained with Jesus until he expired; but with these sentiments of respect was mingled a deep feeling of shame and confusion, when they reflected on their own cowardly conduct in abandoning their Lord and Master in the hour of need. John spoke to every one with the greatest charity and kindness; his manner was modest and unassuming as that of a child, and he seemed to fear receiving praise. I saw the assembled group take one meal during that day, but its members were, for the most part, silent; not a sound was to be heard throughout the house, and the doors were tightly closed, although, in fact, there was no likelihood of any one disturbing them, as the house belonged to Nicodemus, and he had let it to them for the time of the festival.
The holy women remained in this room until nightfall; it was lighted up by a single lamp; the doors were closed, and curtains drawn over the windows. Sometimes they gathered round the Blessed Virgin and prayed under the lamp; at other times they retired to the side of the room, covered their heads with black veils, and either sat on ashes (the sign of mourning), or prayed with their faces turned towards the wall; those whose health was delicate took a little food, but the others fasted.
I looked at them again and again, and I saw them ever occupied in the same manner, that is to say, either in prayer or in mourning over the sufferings of their beloved Master. When my thoughts wandered from the contemplation of the Blessed Virgin to that of her Divine Son, I beheld the holy sepulchre with six or seven sentinels at the entrance—Cassius standing against the door of the cave, apparently in deep meditation, the exterior door closed, and the stone rolled close to it. Notwithstanding the thick door which intervened between the body of our Saviour and myself I could see it plainly; it was quite transparent with a divine light, and two angels were adoring at the side. But my thoughts then turned to the contemplation of the blessed soul of my Redeemer, and such an extensive and complicated picture of his descent into hell was shown to me, that I can only remember a small portion of it, which I will describe to the best of my power.

21
Mar

Good Friday

Well it’s Good Friday today. I was about to say that I was a bit disappointed that Good Friday happened to fall on my day of posting, as I’m sure one of the other posters would be able to give a better, more serious, and sombre account of the day. However, I then realised that one of the essential features of Good Friday is that it actually does fall on Friday so it’s pretty much me every year and this time.

Now based on past experience, there probably aren’t too many people who read the blog on days like today. And for the BF faithful who may be on here today, you hardly need me to tell them about the importance of today, the magnitude of the events of today, and what it means for everyone.

So instead I’ll just say a few nice things about the Mass I attended yesterday at the start of the Easter Triduum. Now at St. Patrick’s there are nice little glass doors in the transepts where people walking by can have a look in. During the entrance procession yesterday I noticed some people looking in from the outside. It was a good time to be looking in as there was a good long procession of priests making their way up to the altar in a very stately manner followed by Bishop’s Pat and Robin. It was quite stately and would have looked quite nice for anyone who didn’t really have a clue what was happening.

Now some people may gripe about the Mass and that it’s too steeped in ceremony and should be livened up a little. Now I can’t help but feel that thinking like that is somewhat erroneous. Yesterday’s Mass was great, full of ceremony and meaning and mystery. Fantastic and made me truly proud to be Catholic.

Anyway to all of you reading out there, a happy and holy Easter to you all.

20
Mar

Easter, why bother with the days off?

I can’t help but feel that it won’t be long before Easter holidays are done away with or renamed.

Enough people in New Zealand think they’re just having a long weekend anyway, right?

As evidenced by a piece on Sunrise this morning. And as evidenced by the number of people who ask me what I’m up to this weekend.

Um, I’m going to church for most of it. That’s what Easter’s about…

But, at the same time, I loathe the whole bemoaning of how society doesn’t remember Jesus on “holydays” and how it’s about time we remembered he’s the reason for the season.

Let’s just can the holiday altogether. If we truly are a secular country, why should Christians have more rights to recognise their significant religious occasions than others?

19
Mar

Keep digging…

You know when you make a really bad comment, and you try to redeem yourself, and someone says “Yeah yeah, keep digging…” Boy, did I have a moment like that today. I tell you, it’s a great way to generate something to write about on Being Frank, but it’s a sure painful way to do it.

It was the simple click of an email, sent to the wrong person, and it really caught me out when I realised what I’d done. I find myself having to climb out of a deep hole that I dug for myself, and to be honest, it sucks like nothing else. And when I really thought about it, what I’d said wasn’t what I felt in my heart of hearts, it was a careless set of remarks.

What a lesson – all things happen for a reason. It is a wake up call to remind me that I’m not immune in the words I use and the judgements I make on others. It also taught me the importance of loyalty. You don’t diss someone with whom you need to provide a united front – you disagree with them to their face, not behind their back.

So once again, this is me being frank, and I guess a bit personal, in this Lenten season of repentance – would I really be happy if everything I said in the quiet was proclaimed from the rooftops? Do I honestly seek ‘charity in all things’ – including those which I disagree with? Am I courageous enough to speak to a person’s face, or coward enough to speak behind their back?

I know this is a place of annonymity, but I think we could all do well to consider those questions for just a moment? Especially me.

18
Mar

Feel the love people, feel the love

It never ceases to amaze me how the Catholic dissenting crowd never actually practice what they preach when it comes to inclusiveness, diversity and charity.

Two recent examples highlighted this for me.

Example number one:
I have a friend who attends the local weekday Mass at their parish.

My friend is not a serial complainer, and you certainly would not call this person a liturgical Nazi, or any other derogatory term that is often leveled at faithful Catholics who speak up when they see liturgical abuse happening in their parish.

Anyway, my friend has been attending the local parish weekday Mass for a while now, and all during that time there have been consistent and serious liturgical abuses occurring.

The parish priest has tried to remedy these issues, but the dissenters who attend the weekday Mass have simply ignored the priest, and are continuing to do their own thing – which has been going on so long that it has become entrenched in the weekday Mass.

My friend approached the parish priest about it, and was told that he had tried to address the issues, without success, and so my friend asked if it would be okay if they spoke to the people at the weekday Mass about this issue – which the parish priest was strongly supportive of.

So my friend prayed a lot, and then gently raised the issue after the next weekday Mass.

You can imagine what happened next.

My friend’s gentle comments were met with very vocal outrage and anger.

As soon as my friend mentioned the relevant liturgical documents which clearly state that what was going on was an abuse that was not compatible with genuine liturgy, people got even more annoyed and one of the women present stormed off to berate the priest in the sacristry.

My friend was accused of all sorts of things, and was told that they were not being inclusive – funny that, because the way I see it, my friend has been told that they had better accept the lityurgical abuses or else they won’t be included in the weekday Mass clique.

Anyway, the upshot of this is that the majority of the people at the weekday Mass no longer even speak to my friend at Church.

Example number two:
Recently the Auckland diocese announced the awesome news that they are going to implement married Deacons.

In light of this, several public meetings were held around the traps to keep people abreast of what exactly this means for the diocese and how it will all work.

At the first meeting (held last week in Takapuna) Bishop Pat introduced and explained the married Diaconate, and then a Deacon spoke about his experiences, and after a more detailed explanation of how the Diaconate works the floor was opened for questions.

At this point the dissenters spoke, and talked of how disappointed they were about the introduction of a married Diaconate in Auckland.

One person who was present at the meeting put it this way:

“I appreciate I have a bias but I was taken aback by the coldness in the critics vs the opposite in the supporters My personal view at this stage was that there was a surreal sense of two church’s in that room and I could not help but feel that the Holy Spirit was not with the feminists. The difference was palpable. It was also interesting that there was support from the young women present [for the married Diaconate] but no detractors under 60 spoke.”

How ironic that a group of dissenters who talk of inclusiveness, and who scream black and blue about clericalism and authoritarian dictatorship any time someone even hints at doing things as the Church asks us too, are the very same people who exercise the most unjust form of power, exclusion and uncharitable and judgmental speech and actions towards people who disagree with them.

They talk about inclusiveness, but what they really mean is that they are only interested in including ideas which they agree with, and people who are prepared to submit to them – and everything and anyone else will be excluded, judged and maligned by them.

Anyway, if you are in Auckland I recommend that you get along to the other public meetings about the married Diaconate and support Bishop Pat and this important new addition to the Sacramental life of the Auckland Diocese!

The meeting dates are:

Wednesday 26th March: 7.30pm St Mark’s Parish, 334 Pakuranga Rd, Pakuranga

Wednesday 2nd April: 7.30pm, St Columba Centre, 40 Vermont St Ponsonby

Thursday 3rd April: 7.30pm St Anne’s Parish, 126 Russell Rd Manurewa, Manukau

Saturday 5th April: 11.30am St Francis Xavier Parish Cnr Park Ave and Kamo Rd
(Entrance 63 Park Ave) Whangarei