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Archive for January, 2009

31
Jan

Holy Mary, My Mother

How often do we truly take a moment to contemplate the love, holiness, and sacrifice of Mary throughout her life? How often do we actually speak to her as our mother? What about consider her role throughout the gospels and Jesus’ life? The day can pass by quickly without a thought or prayer given to our Mother. What a shame this is! I have been considering this week how amazingly significant the little events in her story are…

God chose Mary, of all the other women of all eternity, to be the mother of God. Why? Can you imagine what she must have been feeling after her encounter with the angel Gabriel? Yet, she still accepted His will in a way that I can not do in the smallest of things sometimes. How incredibly full of faith she is! Here is a great article touching on the significance of the Annunciation.

Mary serves as an incredible example of the acceptance of suffering. She watched her only son die on a cross. She saw him brutally beaten, crowned with thorns, slashed with a lance, and when everyone else had run away, she was at the foot of the cross, gently taking Jesus’ lifeless body into her arms. Can you imagine the pain, the suffering, the anger you would have felt? Yet, she remained strong, full of optimism, and faithful the will of God.

Finally, after Christ’s passion and death, the disciple John took Mary ‘to his own home’ (John 19:27). Let’s stop and consider this. Did he just take her to his house, to stay with him in her old age? No, from that point on, Mary truly became our mother, forming a bond with Christ’s family stronger than any other human bond, a spiritual bond that is a pathway to the unending grace of Christ. Not only has the disciple welcomed all the Lord has taught him, he welcomes his OWN mother into his life in a profound way, one which we are to model today.

Mary is truly my mother. It took me a long time to recognise that, but once I at least partly opened my eyes to her beauty, I was amazed at the depth of her significance and prevalence in the story of salvation. She served as an example of faith, hope, and love in such a special way that God chose her to play an incredibly crucial role in our salvation. How blessed are we! While the day can fly past us with unrelenting speed, I pray that we stop, contemplate our love for Mary each day, and ask ourselves how we can love her more. How can we devote our lives to Jesus, through Mary? How can we learn to turn to her in times of suffering or grief? Let’s take time to pray the rosary, to pray to our mother in an intimate, honest, open way that she is able to transform our will to God’s. What a better way to draw ourselves into the love of Christ than to draw close to the one person who knows him most intimately.

Hail Mary, Full of Grace!

30
Jan

“But I like that film biography idea: a slick Hollywood picture to gloss over my evil rise to power like “Bugsy” or “Working Girl”.”

I picked up the Central Leader yesterday. For those unfamiliar with the Central Leader, it is one of Auckland’s surbaban newspapers. There’s also the East and Bays Leader, and the Western Leader. Probably the South Auckand Leader as well although I haven’t read one of those. Actually I don’t know if they all run with the name ‘Leader’ but I know it’s the Central Leader.

It was the first time in awhile I’ve read one of these, not having a natural affection for these little brothers (or sisters  if you like) of the major newspapers. It’s like the Herald lite I suppose. Full of ads, local community news, feel good stories, and occassionally something chunky and really news worthy. (Watch me resist making this an analogy of the Catholic Church and others).

Maybe if I had delivered some of these as an after school job when I was but a lad, I would have developed more love for the old surbaban paper. But no, I delievered circulars instead (when I wasn’t delivering straight to the tip). Anyway, there was a whole spread in the Central  Leader about people writing in and complaining about ‘The Simpsons’. Now I don’t want to label these people conservative prudes, but my goodness there are some conservative prudes out there.

Ok there were some well made points about the humour being too adult for children who are no doubt attracted to its cartoon format and also its fairly early screening time. But is it anyone’s fault if the satire and quickfire wit is too much for those that don’t get it? And it’s entertainment. Anything goes in entertainment these days judging by  the music and movie worlds.  

And if it’s good enough, no matter the subject matter, it will surely win an award. But has the entertainment industry ever really been about promoting all that’s good and wholesome in the world…

29
Jan

Domestics

A few of us were sitting around at my apartment last night recounting our run ins with mothers and spatulas and how at some stage we all attempted to hid/destroy the apparatus’ of punishment in our respective households. Now I know my parents did the best they could with the tools they had but I can’t help but think of a few families that are the complete opposite; the kids, at most, have little tantrums. By the look and sound of things they are generally well behaved and these “tantrums” are nothing in comparison to the antics my friends and I used to get up to. i.e they generally don’t involve kicking a door in or getting caught piercing a friends nose. While the home is commonly refered to as the domestic church, I recall more domestics (which I often instigated, if not one of my siblings). Currently, I have no experience with raising children (as I don’t haver any!) so in one sense I feel I’m not privy to the secrets of raising little angels (as opposed to little devils). My experience on a practical level is pretty much zero. But I did like what our Father, Benedict XVI, in his address to those gathered in Mexico for the 6th world day for families, had to say on the family. Learning from our spiritual father is a good place to start I think :) I have pasted an excerpt from his address below. Or you can find the entire address here

This World Meeting of Families has aimed to encourage Christian homes so that their members may be people who are free and rich in human and Gospel values, on their way towards holiness; that is the best service that we Christians can offer contemporary society. The Christian response to the challenges that confront the family and human life in general must face consists in reinforcing trust in the Lord and the vigour that derives from faith itself, which is nourished in attentive listening to the Word of God.

How beautiful it is to gather as a family to let God speak to the hearts of its members through his living and effective Word. In prayer, especially in the recitation of the Rosary, as it was recited yesterday, the family contemplates the mysteries of the life of Jesus, interiorizes the values on which it meditates and feels called to embody them in its life.

The family is an indispensable foundation for society and for peoples, just as it is an irreplaceable good for children, whose coming into the world as the fruit of love, of the total and generous gift of their parents, deserve to be born. As Jesus demonstrated by honouring the Virgin Mary and St Joseph, the family occupies a fundamental role in a person’s upbringing. It is a true school of humanity and perennial values. No one has given life to himself.

From others we received life, which develops and matures with the truths and values that we learn in our relationship and communion with others. In this regard, the family founded on the indissoluble matrimony of a man and a woman is the expression of the relational, filial and communal dimensions. It is the setting in which men and women can be born with dignity, and can grow and develop in an integral manner (cf. Homily at Holy Mass for the Fifth World Meeting of Families, Valencia, 9 July 2006).

However, this educational task is complicated by a deceptive concept of freedom, in which caprice and the subjective impulses of the individual are exalted to the point of leaving each person locked within the prison of his own self. The true freedom of the human being derives from his creation in the image and likeness of God. For this reason freedom must be exercised responsibly, always opting for the authentic good so that it may become love, a gift of self. For this reason, more than theories, the intimacy and love that are characteristic of the family community are needed. It is at home that people truly learn to live, to value life and health, freedom and peace, justice and truth, work, harmony and respect.

Today more than ever the witness and public commitment of all the baptized is necessary to reaffirm the dignity and the unique, irreplaceable value of the family founded on the marriage of a man and a woman open to life, and also of human life in all of its stages.

Legal and administrative measures must be promoted that support families with their inalienable rights, necessary if they are to continue to carry out their extraordinary mission. The witnesses given at yesterday’s celebration show that today too the family can stand firm in the love of God and renew humanity in the new millennium.

I wish to express my closeness and to assure my prayers for all the families that bear witness to fidelity in especially difficult circumstances. I encourage the many families who, at times living in the midst of setbacks and misunderstandings, set an example of generosity and trust in God, in the hope that they will not lack the assistance they need. I am also thinking of the families who are suffering because of poverty, sickness, marginalization or emigration and, most especially, of Christian families that are being persecuted for their faith. The Pope is very close to all of you and accompanies you in your daily efforts.

28
Jan

You face Mecca, while I pray the Benedictus…

My voyage on this gargantuously large continent that is Africa has shifted from the East now to the West as I find myself in the predominantly Muslim-populated Senegal.

I can tell you that if you look out my bedroom window then turn 90 degrees to your left, you are facing Mecca. How do I know? My hosts come and plant their prayer mats in that direction right outside my window a number of times each day.

There’s no need for an alarm clock (which is lucky, since you can’t buy one in Nairobi airport…you can buy plasma screens, irons and car stereos though!)…because you’re bound to get woken by the 5am call to prayer that blares throughout the neighbourhood. And in case that doesn’t work, there’s the 6.30am call to prayer also.

I have to admit, it’s very handy. Their call to prayer is my call to prayer. I pull out my Liturgy of the Hours Prayer book and find some rest as I pray the Psalms and other scripture. Sometimese it can be a real challenge to prayer, travelling, being disorientated etc, that I find a lot of comfort in the routine of the Divine Office (aka LotH).

It’s a bizarre situation I guess, but in this country there is an incredible tolerance for the Catholics (they don’t really have any other sense of there being other denominations of Christian…bad luck for the Proddies!). And there’s a respect for and understanding about the fact that you have a faith. In some ways, more so than in a country like New Zealand where faith can seem a bit strange.

Hmm, I think it’s time for evening prayer…

26
Jan

Is beauty random?

I’m going to take some of eyeWitness’ excellent advice and keep this short as, for Aucklanders anyway, it’s a public holiday today and the weather is just too nice to be inside. And good weather is a big thing in Auckland! :)

But we seem to have had a lot of good weather here this summer. I’ve found myself out at the beach a lot, at the park, going for walks, swims…you know – Summer “stuff”. :) And a thought came to me the other day when I was at the beach with my toddler son that I thought I’d share with you.

See, we were building a sandcastle. Cliche? Perhaps. But that’s what we were doing. My son was working at building the highest pile of sand-mud he could as we were right down on the tideline, and I was helping sure up the foundations (as he’s not aware of such concepts). After being informed that this was actually a birthday cake, I thought it could do with some decoration, so I started to hunt for some seashells to add to the ‘cake’.

There were plenty around, so I had my pick of a few. But, do you know what I thought as I sifted through dozens of smooth, colourful, interesting shapes? How can anyone think that beauty in nature is random? I mean, you can give me a lesson on sedimentary formation and mineral deposits caused by tidal forces, and tell me that all of that is the reason behind the colours that appear on a shell and the smoothness of the texture. But, I would respond, that’s actually a description of how shells are formed – it doesn’t explain why.

Another example: sunsets. We’ve had some amazing ones over these holidays – so good I had to take some photos. Now, again, you could explain that the amazing hues of fiery reds, burnt orange and deep purple are all just due to the angle of the sun’s rays through the prisms of moisture in the atmosphere and other particles or whatever the scientific reason is for the colours, but again you’d be explaining how those colours come to be…not why.

I can tell you why. I firmly believe that the myriad of life and colour and texture on this planet is a reminder of just how great God is. Surely this is just evolution, some of my more atheistic colleagues would say, and there is a scientific explanation for all of that. But, shells don’t have to appear to be beautiful to survive. A sunset doesn’t need to look as amazing as it does in order to guarantee it’s allowed to do the same the next night.

Beauty isn’t random. God created all – including us – and that is why.

25
Jan

The Sabbath

It’s a long weekend people. Why are you on your computers?! Are you not on them Monday to Friday already? Although it is true reading my post is a good incentive and somewhat worthy reason… 

Anyway, I listened to a good sermon the other day on ‘rest’ and how important it is. It is incredibly important to remind ourselves to take quiet time out. I’m sure God did everything for a reason , so he must have made a Sabbath day for a reason – in which case we should take note of his good judgment and try to ensure we rest and reflect on Sundays.

Are there ways you can do your washing and shopping and cleaning on a Saturday and actually leave Sunday free? Wouldn’t it be lovely in so many ways if we could return to a time when non-essential things weren’t even open on a Sunday. We are so used to 24 hour convenience, but it is also that which allows us to work and play and ‘do’ 24 /7.

Don’t let your life whiz by without realizing or reflecting on how you’re living it, or developing a close relationship with God, with whom you want to get well acquainted before you meet him eternally right?

24
Jan

Hearts Aflame 2009

I am sure many of you have been to a fair share of ‘church camps.’ Some good, others, well, leave something to be desired. Some were theologically sound; others stuck to an interesting interpretation of scripture. I bet many ended up as pure entertainment. Only a select few really brought you to the foot of the cross, ultimately encountering Christ in a life changing way. Hearts Aflame 2009 was exactly that for me.

For those of you who may not know, Hearts Aflame is a Catholic summer school held each year for young people from around New Zealand. This year it was held at St. Bede’s College in Christchurch and there were about 150 participants as well as many priests and religious.

While I was not quite sure what to expect during the week, I certainly did not anticipate meeting Christ in such an authentic and intimate way. The entire week was structured around prayer and the liturgy, with morning prayer to start the day, and evening prayer to end it. Mass was celebrated each day as well, with one day a traditional extraordinary form celebrated by the former bishop of Christchurch. The liturgy was celebrated with a reverence that left me awe stuck at the awesome gift Christ has given His Church and His people. Rarely do you find 150 young people on their knees praising God’s name, drawn into complete silence by the beauty and power of the Eucharist. Each night ended in the chapel with adoration, which was the perfect end to such intense learning, prayer, and fellowship during each day.

The instruction during the week was second to none. There were two to three lectures each day on a range of topics, from prayer and the Eucharist, to the life of St. Paul, pro-life and Christian apologetics, evangelism, Mary, philosophy and many others. They were taught by priests or religious, and also by some of the brightest and most esteemed people on their respective subjects in New Zealand. The priests and religious, including many seminarians, were always available for questions or a chat, and taught you in a way that truly made an impact. Each day I walked away from the lectures refreshed and with renewed passion for more knowledge.

Hearts was also a great time of fellowship outside of prayer and learning. Each day was filled with activities, from small group meetings, to free time to do as you please. I got to know a multitude of people from around the country and share in the fellowship of Christ with them. There was just a buzz and liveliness that is often missing during many Sundays at mass or other events.

At least once per day there was a group session with a range of activities and topics discussed, from personal testimony, to Jewish dancing, guys and girls talks, along with excellent praise and worship. The healing service and vocation night were particularly powerful and fruitful. Each evening there was reconciliation available, and we were all consistently encouraged to experience the awesome forgiveness and power of the sacrament. During the week, Christ revealed to me many things that I was hanging onto in my life, things that I needed to offer to Him in sacrifice to grow in my love for Him. It was amazingly freeing to offer these things up, some of which I had been carrying for years.

Finally, the priests and religious were an incredible example of fidelity and love to everyone. I had not seen so many young, faithful, and lively priests or religious since World Youth Day. There were two Sisters of Life that came out from North America and exuded more passion and life from their very being than I had ever encountered. I can not thank all of them enough for sacrificing their time to attend Hearts; they were truly a blessing.

In the end, Hearts Aflame is a treasure for the Church in New Zealand. Only Christ could inspire so many people to sacrifice their time and energy for these young faithful, providing a place for prayer, learning, and fellowship that is so completely Christ centred. I saw many lives transformed during the week and am so thankful for the opportunity to intimately experience the love of Christ through all the people, prayer, instruction, and activities. Praise God!