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Archive for August, 2009



24
Aug

Ding, ding!

I was having an interesting argumentverbal boxing match…er…animated conversation with my dear dad last week. :) I sometimes wonder how we get on to the topics we do, but for whatever reason, we found ourselves discussing the oft-mentioned Swine Flu Communion restrictions, which are still in place. It turns out that both my dad and I are against the restrictions still being in place, but for different reasons.

I think these restrictions should be lifted because the threat of the Swine Flu has surely passed by now? I mean, Spring is almost here! Why should we continue to restrict those of us that wish to receive on the tongue from doing so?

It’s fair to say that my dad doesn’t really care much for such “old school” ways of receiving Our Lord. His basis for having these restrictions lifted came from the Gospel reading the Sunday before last (“I tell you the truth, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you” – John 6:53). Dad was saying that the Church in New Zealand was not allowing Catholics to follow the commands of Christ – in restricting the Eucharist to only one species.

And so the debate began.

I started by saying that the Church said that receiving one kind gained the same graces as receiving both. Dad responded that such a position was farcical given that Christ commanded us to receive both. I responded by saying that so long as you received under both kinds once in your life (e.g. your First Communion), you had fulfilled Christ’s command – the rest was just bonus rounds. :) In fact, I stated, I recalled someone telling me that 400-500 years ago, it was common for Catholics to only receive Communion once in their lives – as close to their deathbeds as could be scheduled. I definitely recall seeing that on a documentary to do with Constantine. He left getting baptised until the last years of his life because he knew he had more killing to do…according to the documentary anyway. ;)

We agreed to disagree, and then dad had a go at receiving on the tongue. He said that, once again, Christ commanded us to “take and eat” and “take and drink”, not “place on the tongue” and “don’t bother receiving”. I responded by saying that we didn’t know how Christ distributed at the Last Supper. Dad said all common sense would say there was no placing on tongues. I said that either way – whether you receive in the hand or receive on the tongue – neither is strictly in line with the Gospel as neither is taking. Receiving is a different verb altogether.

We, again, agreed to disagree. But later on, after agreeing to disagree again on whether the Church had changed her teaching on limbo and suicide, I mentioned (nonchalantly) that I had heard a rumour that the “old” Our Father was soon to be returning to our shores. Talk about lighting a fuse! :) Dad responded with “that will never happen” and also asked why people would care so much about something so silly as a few clarifications of words. I responded with I would rather pray the same Our Father as all other Christians, and that our version was just used here and some parts of Australia. Dad called rubbish on that, and said that he had seen the same version prayed in other overseas countries recently, including Hong Kong and…one other one I can’t remember.

So, to those who know far more than I on these topics:

  1. What’s the story on receiving under one kind being equivalent to both?
  2. Was I right that long ago, Catholics would only receive once or twice in their lifetimes and would delay as long as they could?
  3. What did you think of my argument re: receiving on the tongue? ;)
  4. And do you have any thoughts (or confirmation of rumours) on the old vs. the new Lord’s Prayer?

I do like these chats with my dad – who is an amazing man of faith, a faithful Catholic, one who loves his Church and his God, and who has inspired me in so many ways that I’ve lost count. He encourages this kind of debate and active thought, so I thought it wise to check my facts for Round II. ;)

23
Aug

The Daily Grind…

Our lives are pretty routine a lot of the time. We get up, get ready in a similar order every morning, go to work, get home, make dinner, maybe go out, get ready for bed. We work through Monday to Friday, looking forward to the weekend when we can do what we want for awhile. Maybe sometimes you have to push yourself along to Church on the days you don’t feel like going.

There was an article in the Herald awhile ago entitled ‘is your daily grind really your daily gratification?’ Humans feel happy when they have discipline and routine in their lives. That often means making ourselves do things we know we should do, even though we don’t want to at the time, to make ourselves feel much happier in the end. Have you ever noticed how in lecture theatres people tend to sit in the same seats week after week? Obviously, for some reason we like routine and normality.

I found this idea on someone else’s blog
Unless you normally think of happiness as a type of well-being, you are going to want to go for that feeling of content you get when things are going smoothly in your routine. Happiness will be a fleeting period of time that comes and goes along that routine, but seeking it would be a disappointing activity. It is sort of like only wanting to roll down a hill, but not wanting to walk back up the hill to do so again. There has to be a give and take involved.

And also this article by JOHN VESPASIAN who apparently writes about rational living.
Even under the best circumstances, attaining peace of mind and happiness requires substantial work. Without the right principles, those endowed with prodigious gifts by heredity will just bury themselves in sorrow through mistakes and inconsistencies. You can find evidence of this by opening any newspaper.

What is the essence of happiness? How is it determined? How can we steer our life in its direction?
What really creates contrasting levels of happiness is how individuals interpret events according to their convictions about the past, present, and future:

2.- ABOUT THE PRESENT: Difficulties and, in particular, boring or unpleasant work are much better accepted by individuals who link them to their long-term personal objectives. Men and women of high ambitions know that performing daily routines well is a requisite of progress. The contentment of those who look beyond the present remains incomprehensible to short-term mentalities. This is why the same work can be experienced, depending on individual goals, either as dead-end or as a step forward.

3.- ABOUT THE FUTURE: Progress derived from focused routines leads to achievement. The path to success might be irregular, advancement slow, and results below expectations, but you can always find another road that will take you further…Human happiness is, to a great extent, the result of making such connection and anticipating those goals.
Routine, progress, and achievement constitute the sequence of happiness. Viewing the unique thread that links our past, present, and future is a fundamental gift of philosophy. Peace of mind and happiness start and end with personal responsibility.

So routine, progress and achievement? That sounds like what makes me happy I think. And it doesn’t sound so different from what the great saints teach either… I like to have purpose and I like to have goals and a ‘long term vision’. What is happiness for a Christian? Are we seeking happiness? Probably not directly, but it is a by product of peace and purpose which we do seek.

So what should we be running after? We know from the Church that a quiet sense of abandonment to God brings the most peace and happiness in the end – even though entrusting your life like that can feel a bit like jumping off a cliff being unsure of a soft landing sometimes.

Discerning appropriate goals can be a challenge, but as long as you spend time in prayer each day, abandoning yourself to God’s will for you each day – and do your best with integrity – then surely you must be doing pretty well and gradually improving? It seems it takes daily discipline and routine to gradually get there – maybe like the story of the tortoise who won the race… A sense of humour and not taking yourself too seriously seem to go a long way too :-)

22
Aug

The upside of suffering?!

I have been thinking about suffering recently. It seems that generally when people experience large personal blows it leads them to question their faith, leading to a strengthening or abandonment of it. It can be hard to understand why a loving God would allow bad things to happen to his people.

An article I read by Peter Kreeft explains it well. It is on his website here and is well worth a read. He explains that Christ loves us above all, and love seeks intimacy rather than happiness.

In coming into our world he came also into our suffering. He sits beside us in the stalled car in the snowbank. Sometimes he starts the car for us, but even when he doesn’t, he is there. That is the only thing that matters. Who cares about cars and success and miracles and long life when you have God sitting beside you? He sits beside us in the lowest places of our lives, like water. Are we broken? He is broken with us. Are we rejected? Do people despise us not for our evil but for our good, or attempted good? He was “despised and rejected of men.” Do we weep? Is grief our familiar spirit, our horrifyingly familiar ghost? Do we ever say, “Oh, no, not again! I can’t take any more!”? He was “a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief.” Do people misunderstand us, turn away from us? They hid their faces from him as from an outcast, a leper. Is our love betrayed? Are our tenderest relationships broken? He too loved and was betrayed by the ones he loved. “He came unto his own and his own received him not.” Does it seem sometimes as if life has passed us by or cast us out, as if we are sinking into uselessness and oblivion? He sinks with us. He too is passed over by the world. His way of suffering love is rejected, his own followers often the most guilty of all; they have made his name a scandal, especially among his own chosen people. What Jew finds the road to him free from the broken weapons of bloody prejudice? We have made it nearly impossible for his own people to love him, to see him as he is, free from the smoke of battle and holocaust.

….What then is suffering to the Christian? It is Christ’s invitation to us to follow him. Christ goes to the cross, and we are invited to follow to the same cross. Not because it is the cross, but because it is his. Suffering is blessed not because it is suffering but because it is his. Suffering is not the context that explains the cross; the cross is the context that explains suffering. The cross gives this new meaning to suffering; it is now not only between God and me but also between Father and Son. The first between is taken up into the Trinitarian exchanges of the second. Christ allows us to participate in his cross because that is his means of allowing us to participate in the exchanges of the Trinity, to share in the very inner life of God.

21
Aug

“Baby On Board, Something something, Burt Ward…This thing writes itself!”

One thing I like about long distance driving is listening to the radio. Well actually that’s a lie because that’s the only thing I like about long distance driving. Actually, that’s a lie too as I enjoy the conversation during long distance drives. Anyway, I was listening to the radio on one of these long distance drives and a new song by Nickelback was playing. At least I think it was the new song. All their music is so same-y. Sorry Nickelback fans, but you know this to be the truth (or should that be Nickelback fan…).

I’m sure the esteemed members of Nickelback are actually really creative, so why does all their music sound the same? Is it laziness? No I don’t think so. They’ve hit on a successful formula and they’re going to mine it for all it’s worth. Good on them I say. It’s much easier taking the tried and tested route after all. And as humans, surely our natural instinct is to go for the easy way out. Maybe why there’s so much evil and wrongdoing in the world. It’s a tough job trying to be good all the time and doing the wrong thing is at times so much easier. Gosh aren’t we terrible.

Since being away from Auckland and in the provinces, we’ve also started attending a weekly pub quiz night at one of the local establishments. Now I don’t want to brag (but I will), but our team has attended 6 of these quizzes so far and we’ve won 4, come 2nd once, and the other time is not worth talking about. While I would like to think this amazing win ratio is due to our collective brilliance, it’s more likely due to more mundane factors like the strength of our competition and the number of teams actually competing. It does give us a bit of an ego boost though.

So I was thinking, this relaly could be an analogy for the way we perhaps live our faith sometimes. Who are we really using as a standard when we’re comparing how we live our Christian faith? We may be doing well against those who take the Nickelback approach to life, but maybe a better standard for comparison is required…

20
Aug

In the words of the not so great Richard Prebble, I’ve been thinking….

I’m not accustomed to reading trashy magazines. In fact they make me cringe. However, I was waiting at in line at the supermarket the other day and I was draw to one particular magazine – women’s day, I think. On the cover was Jo Cotton (former True Bliss “Diva” turned radio celeb) who was recently wed. The whole point of the story was that she had invested so much time and emotional energy into her wedding (apparently preparing for it her whole life) that when everything was over and she had settled back into normal life she experienced this amazing low – I think she called it a type of depression. Apparently the whole affair was worsened by the fact that both her and her husband lost two pets tragically in a car accident, which in her words was a devastating and painful affair. Now I could comment quite extensively on several of these points already but I will leave you all to make you own judgements. I have included them mainly for contextual reasons.

What I want to focus on today is the mentality that rejects and commodifies children. What does Jo Cotton have to do with this you may ask? Well, her story provides a nice little opening vignette. Apparently (well according to the Women’s Day anyway) M(s??) Cotton began to experience a sort of maternal longing. For instance, she began to feel guilty when she left her pets at home by themselves for long periods of time. Although, Ms Cotton admitted she had never wanted children, she interpreted this feeling of guilt as a maternal sign. Yes, believe it or not, that feeling of guilt for leaving animals at home is a sure sign that one is mature enough and ready to have children. Hmmm… I don’t know if the responsibility of having a child could or should be equated with looking after pets.

I don’t know if anyone has seen the trailer for the movie Bruno. In the trailer there is a short segment where Bruno orders a little African child and it comes in a little brown box on the luggage drop off at the airport. See it here Bruno then proceeds to go on a talk show and confesses that he swapped the child for an iPod. Despite all of Bruno’s (the movie) flaws, I think that Sasha Baron Cohen’s social commentary here is spot on. Our culture has become so materialistic that we now view children as a commodity. I can imagine the feelings that accompany such an attitude. One acquires all the material and social goods that they think they could possibly need – financial security, a good job, a nice husband perhaps and heaps of material possessions – and still they feel like there is a massive void in their life. A child is the next logical step for many people.

If your interested in this subject you might be interested in reading a great article over at Mercatornet, by Barbara Lilly criticising a vocal group in society that refuses to procreate.

17
Aug

Honour well deserved!

Saturday (the 15th) was the Feast of the Assumption of Our Lady. Being one of the two Holy Days of Obligation in New Zealand (where did the others go?), we were off to Mass in the morning. Our parish priest – resplendent in his blue chasuble – gave a fantastic homily where he reflected on something I hadn’t really thought about before. He spoke to the fact that Our Lady was not only the first disciple (with her “yes” at the Annunciation), but she was the only disciple who was constant throughout Christ’s life.

Think about that for a second. She was there at His birth, His childhood and adolescence, His pre-ministry adulthood, His first miracle, throughout His public ministry, and at the foot of the Cross. As our priest pointed out, she is the common thread that is woven throughout His life – and she is there through thick and thin. When you look at what she did with her life, she gave it all to God, and she is a model for what a disciple should be!

This is why we honour Mary – honour, mind you, not worship. We venerate her but, as our priest pointed out, “the Sign of the Cross is ‘in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit’ – Mary doesn’t get a look-in there!” And for good reason! :)

But, don’t forget the place that Mary does have in our Church. It is well-earned as she really is the model for what we should be as disciples. Something to think about the next time someone hits up the Church for being too male-dominated or patriarchal: we model ourselves on a woman who said “yes” when God called. :) The men were all a bit too unreliable. ;)

By the way, for those who don’t know, the Feast of the Assumption is also the feast day for New Zealand. It’s also the birthday of the 15th Station Podcast Network. For two years now, the little network that could has been growing, and now is producing new Catholic content for free download each week. With more to launch in the coming months, I suggest you head on over to www.station15.co.nz and subscribe for free! ;)

16
Aug

Greater diversity of people, yet greater unity of belief desired?

A study on Catholic vocations in the United States has revealed some attention-grabbing statistics.

Interestingly, the study found younger Catholics entering religious life are very concerned that the order they enter into is very in line with Catholic Church teaching and look to an institute’s fidelity to the church first and foremost. Older entrants are more concerned with an institute’s mission. Many younger members would also like to wear a religious habit, a practice that has diminished in most religious institutes in the past 40 years.

I was lucky enough to meet and spend some time with two of the Sisters of Life earlier this year when they visited New Zealand. They were both in their early twenties and the most amazing people and testament to God. They kicked a rugby ball with us (and could spin the ball better than some of the boys I might add!), and were so full of joy and laughter. They wore habits and through wearing them really set themselves apart. That is despite a very practical mission of post abortion counselling and helping young pregnant girls in New York.

It is interesting that it appears the younger generations are much more concerned to practice their faith in an orthodox, what might be branded ‘conservative’ way. Perhaps it’s because young people are very concerned to know ‘why’ they should do things and will look into that very deeply and in a very rational way. They are generally not into doing things in a half pie way it seems to me – if that is the case they are probably of the opinion that it’s not something worth bothering about at all. You sense a more activist spirit in some of the older generations and a ‘drawing back’ in the younger generation.

The study found almost all are drawn to religious life by a sense of call and desire for prayer and spiritual growth, and 85 percent of survey participants said what attracted them to a community was its members and their sense of joy and commitment. New entrants preferred to live in large communities (8 or more). Institutes in which members live alone face challenges attracting new members.

It’s also exciting there is increased diversity of those entering Catholic religious life.

Among those in training:

• 21 percent are Hispanic, 14 percent are Asian or Pacific Islander, and 6 percent are African/African American, which is a shift from 94 percent white among finally professed
• 43 percent are under 30

Among all new members:

• 70 percent enter with a bachelor’s degree and nine in ten held full-time jobs – shows intellience and ‘secular’ life experience? I would say that’s a good thing.
• 7 percent have been married and 5 percent have children
• 73 percent attended Catholic schools for at least part of their education
• 68 percent considered religious life before age 21 – indicates it is something people know they are called to do from a young age?

The study of recent vocations to religious life was undertaken by the Center for the Applied Research in the Apostolate (CARA), a Georgetown University-based research centre. The study sought to determine best practices for religious institutes in attracting and retaining new members.