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Archive for March, 2010



24
Mar

The Spirit’s Lenten quad-call to mercy…

This may sound like a rather shocking statement, but in recent weeks I’ve become particularly conscious of the fact that I’m not perfect. More to the point, I’m a rather long long way from perfect. Sounds positively laughable when I actually write it down. It’s lead to the occasional moment of semi-despair, however I have a funny feeling it’s all been part of how the Spirit has wanted to speak to me this Lent. It’s been a necessary realisation to go deeper in my experience of His Divine Mercy.

There’s four particular ‘means’ by which I sense the Spirit has been trying to raise my consciousness about this…and just maybe it’ll be worth sharing with you guys, fellow Bfers…

1. The Word of God of course, the Sunday gospels, and the accompanying meditations that I receive by email each day. Here’s an extract that really hit home for me from the meditation on the gospel of the adulterous woman brought before Jesus by the Pharisiens: “Experiencing our weaknesses is necessary before we’ll be capable of accepting God’s mercy. The more we come to know our profound weakness, the more profound will be our experience of God’s mercy. There is no experience sweeter, or any deeper joy, than the absolution, the reconciliation by Christ the Redeemer – “I don’t condemn you.” Our deepest egoistic fears disappear and we realise that in fact we’ve been haunted by the ghosts of our own pride and vanity. Let us awake to the reality of God’s mercy…”

2. The 1980 encyclical by JPII Dives in Misericordia (On the Mercy of God) – well worth a read during Lent! – “Believing in the crucified Son means…believing that love is present in the world and that this love is more powerful than any kind of evil in which individuals, humanity, or the world are involved. Believing in love means believing in mercy. For mercy is an indispensable dimension of love; it is as if it were love’s second name, and at the same time, the specific manner in which love is revealed and effected vis-a-vis the reality of the evil that is in the world, affecting and besieging man, insinuating itself even into his heart and capable of causing him to ‘perish in Gehenna’.” I felt quite a strong link between this statement and…

3. The Holy Father’s recent letter to the Catholic Church in Ireland – some might accuse me of just simply being a ‘loyalist’ to the Holy Father, but I’ve certainly sat wondering where on earth a genuine response from the Church could possibly begin with such a tragedy as the clergy abuses. Indeed there may be criticisms to his letter that I myself cannot identify, but for the moment, I have to say I’ve been deeply moved by his message. I feel it be truly a response planted in a profound sense of the link between justice and love – i.e. mercy, as Dives in Misericordia explains. It’s a message of a loving shepherd to his flock, painful but honest, painful and therefore sanctifying, and it implicates every one of us who profess to believe in one holy catholic and apostolic church. At a crisis moment, in sincere humility, he has implored the flock entrusted to him to reflect very deeply and very honestly, in the spirit of mercy as “love vis-a-vis such tragic human failing”. In a moment where both sinner and victim could easily be lead to despair , I feel his letter is an extraordinary witness to Hope grounded in realism.

4. And the final means by which I’ve become so acutely conscious of God’s mercy and my need of it has been much closer to home. Things can get pretty stressful at work, not to mention the frequent language barrier, vast cultural differences, living with your colleagues and frustrating everyday realities. It’s far too easy to fall into the traps of slander, intolerance, resentment and barrier-building as ‘survival tactics’. More so, everyone talks…about everyone. And it’s precisely at this axis that I’ve realised the power of my words – to harm, to heal, to build up and to tear down – this is possibly the most crucial litmus test of my Christian witness. Is my witness, in the last count, genuine and sincere, or merely superficial practice? It’s a relief to realise that I’m not perfect – and that neither are any of my colleagues – indeed, there’s a certain relief in being unqualified to “throw the first stone”. Look long enough and hard enough and you’ll find plenty to drive you bonkers about each other. The only response therefore is one of mercy, of compassion and ultimately of love.

The times when my good intentions or my inability to express myself adequately have been misconstrued have been quite painful. But more painful have been then moments when I know for sure that I’ve just plain ol’ lost my charity, that my heart has been hardened and I’ve let it show – and in that moment I find myself desperate for others to be merciful with me. I’m realising the powerful witness this can be when you really, honestly and humbly seek to settle your differences with another. Personality clashes and conflicts are a natural part of human functioning, most noticeably in a work context…and I’d be hiding behind my own egoism and pride if I think I’ll sail beyond such things – indeed, I’d be quite a Pharisee to think so. Thus it’s precisely at these uncomfortable, ego-slashing moments that our witness to Christ’s healing mercy and love becomes truly authentic and transparent. I’m more and more convinced that it is how we handle these sorts of sticky spots that speak most loudly of the sincerity of our faith in Christ and his mercy.

I just pray for the wisdom to recognise those ‘sticky’ opportunities of grace…kick out my egoism Lord, that I’ll be humble enough to see others through the eyes of Christ, to be merciful and accept the mercy of others as reflections of your infinite mercy.

23
Mar

Destroying spy bases will only lead to more wars, more violence and more deaths

Yes, my blog post today certainly does have a provocative title, but I firmly believe it to be true.

What the well meaning, but seriously misguided, advocates (and their supporters) of destroying spy bases, like the one at Waihopai, don’t seem to have got their heads around is the fact that destroying the Western intelligence gathering technologies is an act that will simply lead to more wars, more violence and more deaths.

Firstly, destroying Western intelligence gathering technology would simply lead to a West that had to rely on nothing more than on the ground intelligence to try and defend itself against the very real problem of terrorism and other forms of violent extremism.

This would take us back decades, and it would allow terrorist organizations (and others) to freely use communications technology to plot and carry out terrorist acts – this would provide them with an unbelievable advantage that would make things like bombing gatherings of innocent civilians, or vital civilian infrastructure, a very easily accomplished act.

There is absolutely no doubting that not having technological intelligence gathering capabilities would result in an increase in the killing of innocent civilians in the West.

The other thing that would result from ridding the West of intelligence gathering technologies would be a marked increase in violence, deaths and wars in places like the Middle East, Asia and Pakistan.

You see, without technological intelligence capabilities, the US (and other Western nations) would simply have to resort to much more aerial bombing, invasions and carpet missile strikes on innocent populations in an attempt to wipe out terrorists, etc.

What the spy base opponents seem to be totally ignorant about is the fact that an increased use of surveillance technologies would reduce the need for large scale military responses, instead it allows the West to engage in more precise, direct and focused actions which reduce the harm to the innocent civilian populations where terrorists hide themselves.

In fact, by providing such an ability, electronic intelligence gathering technology actually makes the use of large, wide ranging military responses (all out wars, rocket attacks, etc) more and more morally unacceptable, because with this technology, such military actions become less and less necessary to protect against an unjust aggressor.

Intelligence gathering technologies allow the West to respond to dangerous threats against them with the military equivalent of a scalpel, but without this technology they would only have a broadsword to respond to these problems with.

Is that what the spy base vandals, and their supporters, are hoping for, or is it that they have such a self-loathing hatred for their own Western civilization that actually harbor a fondness for the idea of terrorists bringing an end to it all?

These people seem to be operating under the totally false assumption that less technological intelligence gathering capabilities will equal less innocent deaths, particularly in non-Western nations.

But this is pure nonsense.

Are they so naive as to believe that the US and other Western nations will simply stop responding to terrorism, and other forms of violent extremism, if they have no technological spying capabilities?

The tragic irony here is that increasing intelligence capabilities is actually a way of reducing the likelihood of wars.

No, it doesn’t stop them from happening, and that is not what I am arguing, but it certainly does reduce the need for all out war as a response to these threats.

Why go to war, which costs money, lives and political support, when a threat can be neutralised with a more precise, and less destructive response?

Look, I’m no supporter of Western foreign policy in places like the Middle East, I don’t support the war in Iraq, and I am not so foolish as to think that the US (and other Western nations) aren’t misusing these technologies for evil ends.

But the problem isn’t with the technology itself, or the use of it, which is a neutral thing, instead the problem is with the misuse of the technology for immoral purposes.

Destroying the thing which is being misused for immoral purposes, and which can actually be put to morally good uses, doesn’t resolve anything.

In fact I would argue that it is incredibly shortsighted and foolish.

You don’t solve the problem of people using computers to commit criminal acts by destroying all the PC’s in the world – that would be lunacy.

Or is this a luddite/hippy/conspiracy theory thing?

Where the opposition to spy bases is being driven by a general underlying mistrust of technology, governments and politics, and a misguided belief that all of the world’s problems would be solved if we went back to Medieval village living?

Now I suspect that the spy base vandals, or their supporters, might respond to my suggestions here today by claiming that they don’t actually oppose spy bases, and that their recent attack was simply an attempt to draw attention to the evils taking place in the Middle East thanks to US foreign policy.

To that I simply say; “I have a very hard time believing such a suggestion”.

Everything I have heard from those who participated in this spy base attack, and their supporters, is that they want an end to spy bases, especially the one in NZ.

And are they so uninformed as to think that the majority of New Zealanders don’t already oppose the war in Iraq, or that they don’t already harbor distrust and opposition for much of US foreign policy?

I’m not exactly sure what they hoped to achieve by their actions, and I am even more unsure about exactly good they have managed to achieve for their cause with this whole incident.

If they wanted to educate people, then there are far more effective methods (especially from a PR perspective) than having three bearded fellows break in to a facility and commit acts of vandalism using gardening tools.

In fact, I would argue that they have done the cause of social justice more harm than good with this stunt, because the majority of New Zealander’s are not comfortable with this sort of extremist activism, in fact I would suggest that most Kiwis consider it either counterproductive or comical.

The sad reality is that these three vandals have taken all the attention away from the suffering going on in Iraq, and other places, and have instead focused all of the attention on themselves.

No one is talking about US foreign policy in any meaningful way, instead they are talking about the senseless, misguided actions of these three men.

With this stunt, these three guys (and their supporters) have managed to relegate their cause to the backseat (actually, it’s probably more like the car boot of the vehicle three cars behind them), while they become the centre of a three ring circus.

This is a classic example of how NOT to gain publicity for your cause.

If they consider this sorry incident a victory for social justice and the advancement of peace, or for those who are suffering in the Middle East, then it really is time for them to hang up the sickles and look for another day job.

30 minutes of prayer would have been far more effective than the hours it took to plan, organise and execute the vandalism at Waihopai.

22
Mar

When the bare branch breaks

I read a rather disturbing article from the Economist the other day entitled “Gendercide: the worldwide war on baby girls”. You can read it here, but please be warned that some of the stories in there are pretty grisly.

To summarise for those of you who don’t want to put yourselves off your lunch, the story refers to the brave new world that we live in where selecting the sex of our children has been under way for decades now, and how the ramifications on our world as whole are now being measured.

What was interesting (and depressing) first of all was that this is not a localised practice. The idea of identifying the gender of an unborn child in an ultrasound, and then killing her when it is confirmed that she will not be a boy, is sometimes associated with China’s astonishingly evil One Child policy – a policy stance that they are having to soften now, given it is fundamentally undermining their culture.

Huh. Who would have thought.

At any rate, this practice is not restricted to the Chinese, as the Economist explains:

Parts of India have sex ratios as skewed as anything in its northern neighbour. Other East Asian countries—South Korea, Singapore and Taiwan—have peculiarly high numbers of male births. So, since the collapse of the Soviet Union, have former communist countries in the Caucasus and the western Balkans. Even subsets of America’s population are following suit, though not the population as a whole.

This behaviour is resulting in what is being termed “bare branches” – men far outnumbering women to the point where there aren’t enough women to marry, so you are left with some perpetually single men. The Economist sums up some of the scary facts associated with an over-abundance of men – increased crime, violence, rape – and the “sex ratios” (i.e. the number of boys vs. girls) are not looking good.

Take, for example, the sex ratio in China. The natural range is somewhere between 103 and 106 boys for every girl born. This is based on historical figures and shows that boys are a somewhat weaker stock than girls, with more of them dying earlier on than girls. However, in fourteen of the provinces in China, the ratio in the past 25 years has increased to an unbelievable 125!

What does this mean? It means that in 2020, China will have 30m-40m more men (aged 19 and below) than women. That’s equivalent to the entire young male population of the U.S!

And all of this is still happening regardless of India and China making sex-selective abortion illegal since the mid 90′s. (Sweden’s a bit more backwards than everyone else – they actually legalised the practice in 2009!)

I find the whole thing astonishing. I mean, how many horror/sci-fi movies or pejorative references to “playing God” does it take for us to wake up to the dystopian future we seem to be running towards, full steam ahead? This is what happens when we lose our moral compass as a planet, and put selfish or ridiculously outdated cultural boundaries in front of Natural Law…God’s Law!

It really has got to stop. But I don’t see how it can until everyone – worldwide – wakes up to the fact that life is sacred. It’s not something to be messed with and selected on the basis of gender, eye colour or anything else!

Anyone want to rate New Zealand’s chances of being a beacon for the world on this? ;) Okay, so odds won’t be good, but would you care to share some ideas on how to improve the odds?

There’s a lot at stake here.

21
Mar

Role models

It used to be that every good New Zealand boy played rugby and every good household watched the games, and the players were real role models for young kids that inspired them to also reach their dreams… Is it still like that?

My general impression is that the black jersey, and certainly the blue Auckland one, is a bit devalued – mainly because of the behaviour of some of those that wear them. When the game wasn’t professional it seemed that more honour and patriotism was involved somehow – those great names like Buck and Fitzpatrick. To think they all played and had to support themselves financially.

It would be nice if we could still have those sort of role models. Still, the Rugby World Cup is coming to New Zealand next year which should be great for the game. Let’s hope the players play the game well and are great role models for their countries.

20
Mar

Snares of the Devil

Reading about the actions and life of Stephen Versalko this week certainly brought feelings of repulsion and disbelief. How could someone? How could they? It just does not seem possible. How could you live with yourself?

Then, I am reminded of my own imperfect humanity with this line:

Stephen Versalko knew deep down he would be caught and was relieved when his huge $17.8 million fraud was discovered.

He expressed relief. He did not want to live this life after all. He wanted to be caught. He needed a way out.

There is a thin line between Versalko and us. He seemed normal. He was ‘affable, polite, and energetic’. He convinced people to invest millions with him. Yet, on the back of a comparatively tiny indiscretion of recovering his $40,000 credit card debt (and the actions it took to accumulate that debt), he got greedy. That one little word separates us from him.

Reading his story reminds me of the reality of being ‘trapped in sin’. It is very real and can make people do things that seem irreconcilable to their normal selves. I’ve seen and experienced it, I’m sure everyone has. Once the devil grabs hold of your soul in mortal sin, he does not easily let go. Greed is a tool especially useful for the devil in our modern society. He will keep that mirage of the carrot in front of you, empty promises of happiness and fulfillment, and in the end dragging you into a life you do not recognise.

Lets be careful not to push Stephen into a dark hole of exclusion and despair. He is probably quite normal. He still deserves our love. He may have lost his dignity and ruined lives, but hopefully this is a moment where the leaf turns.

The bondage of sin is very real. The only cure is Christ in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. The only way to stay far away from the thin line that separates us from the evil of Satan is humbling ourselves before Christ, pleading for His mercy.

The best part is, that mercy is limitless. We only have to ask.

19
Mar

‘Homer, I just used our last time-out to call and congratulate you on averting that nuclear holocaust.’

I guess if you think about it, we humans are quite lucky.  We’re lucky that billions of years ago, a few clouds of dust and other space matter decided to come together and form the universe as we now it.  Luckier still that some leftover bits of dust decided to compact itself into the planets.  And it was very kind of the newly formed planets to spontaneously decide to rotate back then as they do now.  Quite fortunate to that conditions on one of these rocks eventually became  pleasant enough to sustain life and that life was able to flourish without any rogue space bodies obliterating the planet.

Isn’t it luckythat gravity works so well for us and that the Earth is tilted around 23 degrees on its axis thus giving us the seasons.  It’s great that we’re able to have decent hours of night and day considering it takes about a year for Venus to complete a day, and Neptune has not yet even completed an orbit since its discovery. 

We’re lucky that the evolutionary paths our ancestors took led to us being what we are today (although being able to fly and breathe underwater would be handy).  We’re lucky Constantine had a hallucination, the Muslim army didn’t have a flash navy, and that the good guys won the wars that needed to be won.

In fact it’s fortunate we’re here at all.  Lucky for us our parents met and that each party decided they weren’t averse to each other’s company. And the same for our grandparents, our great grandparents, great great grandparents, and so on so forth.  How lucky we are to have the great friends and family members we have, the lives we lead, and the quiet, relatively peaceful, and unspoiled country we live in.   How much luck can one species possibly have??

Time for that lottery ticket I say.

18
Mar

Living it up?

Liturgical Education. We are in much need of it, I’m afraid. I try to frequent parishes where I know I can pray, where my soul can “rest” awhile. I’ll confess, I like solemnity because this takes me to God and tends to help me to be able to participate well in the Mass. Unfortunately last Sunday circumstances didn’t permit me to get to one of these masses so I ventured along to one inner city mass Sunday evening. While I was happy to see a nun (obviously with some pastoral role in the church) so enthusiastic about a few people being received into the Church this Easter, I wasn’t too happy that it had to happen right before the liturgy of the Eucharist. It almost felt like a bit of a concert or a school assembly or something – the clapping, the cheesy Marty Haugen hymns.. Need I say more. I don’t say this to be critical or uncharitable (the levels of liturgical formation vary across the board) and my point isn’t to stimulate yet another debate about liturgical practices and norms. I do, however, what to draw your attention to a question that popped into my mind while I was attending that Mass. I think they are connected…

Do we as Catholics really understand the meaning of festival and having a good time? Looking at all the ‘extras’ in that particular Mass, I would have to say ‘nope, we don’t’. “Community” is not the primary reason we are at Mass but it really seemed to just take over in this instance. I don’t know if you know what I mean but it almost felt like they were trying to force me to be friends with the person next to me when all I really wanted to do was spend some time with God (I’m a socialite but not mid-Mass).

On the other hand, I recalled that at the same time it was Laetare Sunday. A couple of weeks ago, one of my friends who spent several months in a religious order over the Lenten and Easter period explained how laetare Sunday was a massive celebration as it was a reminder to the Church that Our Lord had already achieved all the graces necessary for our salvation (almost as big as Easter in the convent, apparently). This was the first I’d heard about it and I was so excited that I resolved to hold some type of dinner party for my friends as a way of joining the Church in her festival . My dinner party idea unfortunately didn’t quite make it (due to other types of feasting!) but I couldn’t help but think that this would be a wonderful occasion to celebrate as a parish/family/social group after Mass or earlier in the day.

I think I’ll go back to my usually Sunday morning haunt from now on – the Carmelite Monastery – special mention to the young lad who plays the organ and sings there most Sundays – now, he’s a keeper, if I do say so myself :tongue_wink_ee: