I headed up to my folks’ place for the Christmas season, and was unpleasantly surprised to see the presence of a person with ambitions to the role of lay pastoral leader in my home parish.
This is a recent phenomenon. The parish still retains a parish priest (not to mention a priest in residence). The parish also still retains an excellent nun in the position of pastoral assistant. To be clear, this new person has done some vacuous course in Wellington – the sort of course that is short on formation and big on lay leadership. The practical effects of the advent of this newly formed individual have been immediately felt.
Despite there being no need for this person to take on any more ‘ministries’ (this is apparently what we call them now) than anyone else in the parish, the person appears to have, for all intents and purposes, taken over. This person, within a few months of their arrival, now does the following:
- extraordinary minister of Holy Communion (every Sunday, sometimes at both Masses)
- lector at ferial Masses, and often at both Sunday Masses
- chooses the music for Sunday Mass
- organises the roster for musicians
- organises the roster for EMoHCs
- organises the roster for lectors
- organises the roster for servers
- runs the powerpoint for music/responses at Mass
From my own observation, and from first-hand reports, it is clear that this person is simply a bossy boots, who appears to revel in putting other people’s noses out of joint, and in general behaviour of a bullying nature.
There is no sense of assisting or empowering people to be involved in the parish…it is simply a chance for this person to run the show, and this person rides roughshod over those who stand in this person’s way. The PP is obviously too weak to stand up to this person (even if he wanted to, or did, I fear the reaction would be a bloody one).
This lay pastoral leader business is a nonsense. Almost without exception, these people come out of Wellington with kooky ideas, and they then proceed to dominate and bully parishoners into submission with their misguided ways.
Enough is enough.
If you see LPLs bullying people in your parish, stop them. The time has come to stand up to idiocy and the mediocre. And, please, don’t even get me started on the species of music they invariably perfer to employ. You’d think most of them would sell the parish organ or chop it up for firewood before they would suffer it to be played.
Bah.
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