I was having lunch with a great Aussie colleague the other day…and we were talking about, well, ladies’ stuff…and turns out she’s a vegetarian because of some challenges with endometriosis and the hormones in meat that were making her life difficult as a result.
She’s a typical Antipodean lass (if I may generalize) – kind, hardworking, self-deprecating, laid back, pragmatic…and not really raised in any faith, so far as I can tell. Our chat meandered towards the question of contraception, and I shared with her about natural family planning, which not surprisingly, she had never heard about. As has been the response by several non-religious development colleagues that I’ve spoken to over the last few months, she was enthralled by the idea – not so much for herself, but for the potential that NFP has in the developing world. At least, the Billings Ovulation Method™ that is. Now, that’s the only method I know and the one I’m learning to teach, so my view is biased and I know there are some other reliable methods (not all!). Billings is the only method that I know can be taught simply and cheaply to any woman, whether blind, deaf, illiterate or irregular.
Of course, there’s lots of reasons why Billings hasn’t (yet) ‘made it big’ in the development sector, in spite of several very good field trials. Not least of which some rather lucrative commercial gains to be made by making the developing world dependent on contraception – but I still believe that only a small (elite) minority of people involved in family planning really have this in mind. The rest are just looking at the very real challenges of poverty, inequality and injustice and working with what they know. The other side is the relative size of Billings awareness around the world – not high. If you’re considering where to place your financial support for the poorest of the poor, think about donating to the World Organisation for the Billings Ovulation Method (WOOMB) (Ok, financial pitch over…). And then there’s that ‘cool club’ element in development (as in any industry) where you have to fit into the system, talk the talk, know how to jump through the right hoops in order to get your idea listened to…sad, but let’s be real, and in many respects it is a necessary means for quality control because, these days, you need more than ‘good intentions’. And Billings is much more than good intentions.
I have faith, in any case, that there are enough people in the development sector that are genuinely motivated by, well, what works…and after decades of trying to make modern contraception ‘work’, with a dizzying amount of money thrown at the effort, certain people or cultures around the world simply don’t want to buy it (proverbially speaking) – or they buy in reluctantly, wishing there was another way. The reasons for this are a thousand-fold, subtle and complex, and the research is out there to prove it…here’s one great example.
Everyone is on about ‘being innovative’ and ‘thinking outside the box’ so why not try something ‘new’ (that actually isn’t new at all)? In other words, as my Mum would say, the answer is ‘No’ until you ask.








That looks to be just what I’d be interested in supporting. I went to your link and it seems to be the Australian site. I clicked on the Donate area and it says it would be for the more difficult (rural, isolated?) areas of Australia.
Is that the right ‘donate area’ or is there a more international connection?
Good on you Tuppence teaching all the right things for women. I get Friday Fax from Austin Ruse at the UN and the Family Planning orcs are quite forceful. Trying to focus women’s health on artificial contraception and absolute access to abortion. Its very disheartening.
Its so mainstream.
I have a Christian young married woman (non Catholic) who has a very virtuous outlook on all things procreative. The virtue is well placed but she needed good arguments. She was having all sorts of difficulty getting pregnant and some complications which found her under an obstetrician. I gave her a book by William May on Catholic Bioethics re contraception, IVF and all those things. Anyway she came back just recently (hadn’t seen her for about 18 months). She was three months pregnant and thrilled. It all happened naturally. What was interesting was she said her obstetrician kept trying to get her into IVF but she always refused. I’m pleased she had managed to stay in control and not take that road.
I think its great you talk to others about these things in the normal run of life. It can make a real difference.
B
NFP can be a powerful tool to get pregnant too and a couple who understand their fertility can also be helped where infertility is evident This is an area that could have the greatest hope for some such as your friend.
check this out
http://naprotechnology.com/
DV
Thanks for that. I understand that this is a strong benefit of NFP. What has intrigued me is that good people like Tuppence are teaching the method in parts foreign and poor.
I think it is good for a marriage as it involves the husband and lets him come to see his wife for the totally alive womanly person she is.
Hi Benedicta, great to hear you are looking to support the Billings Ovulation Method.
I’m not sure if you can earmark funds donated through thebillingsovulationmethod.org to outside Australia – I have sent an email to htem to find out. Nevertheless, a donation to the efforts in Australia – particularly in rural areas – is no less needed so feel free to do that in the meantime.
I can give you some direct contacts to Billings affiliates in other countries if you can give me your email? Hope that helps.
In the meantime, if you ever are crossing paths with the various NGOs, aid agencies, development organisations etc – ask them what sorts of family planning programmes they have, and where. Ask them if they know of the Billings Ovulation method etc – so so so often development professionals have never even heard of it!
Hi Benedicta… also check out the Worldwide website http://www.woombinternational.org/ (forgot to mention that). No donation button on there (though it’s coming I’m told) but you can contact the individual country affiliates via the ‘Global Outreach’ section in case you want to donate to a particular country.
Thanks Tuppence
I will just stay with the Australian effort – as you say it is no less needed.
I’ll let you know how I get on.
Great work – very impressed.
Hi Tuppence
Bingo!